thoughts about online date site

i think we flow together at certain times and retreat as our moods change and react to whatever's going on around us....the date site is about much more than simply meeting up with people....it makes us examine and question ourselves as contact with different people touches on different aspects of our personality and brings out things we didn't even know were there....really it would be better if there were to periodically be some event so that members could meet and mingle with no pressures....again this problem of isolation and no actual human contact